While I get that my earlier post was brief and concise, sometime its best to know what you and sticking to it. So many times we search for excuses to persuade ourselves that what we truly want is in fact not the right thing just because it does not conform with the norm of society.
I believe a man should be prepared for marriage or even companionship. The same way the woman should be as well.
A man must be financially comfortable before engaging in a relationship and therefore marriage. I think it’s very selfish for a man to marry just because he can or because he got a woman pregnant. This makes me sick to my stomach.
I see this all around me in Africa (where I am briefly living and working for now), so many broken homes because the male responsibility has been shifted to the woman who works all day and still comes home and cooks for the man.
Look, let’s be very real here, everyone has their place in a marriage or relationship therefore its piss taking when the other party becomes selfish.
Yes! It’s very selfish for a man or woman to just want to marry for the sake of it and not take the time to be mentally, emotionally, spiritually and psychologically ready.
Why should anyone put themselves in a cage for a minute let alone a life time.
If a man cannot look after you when you’re his girlfriend how can he provide for you as his wife and furthermore your children?
I am not a gold digger but I am working hard to make myself comfortable so any man that wants to approach me must bring enough to the table so when I add mine we will be highly comfortable.
But if you think I am going to be the bread winner then ‘bruv’ you’re dreaming….and dreaming BIG!!!
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