He’s an EX for a reason

Ok so this job is not as exciting as I thought it would be…I thought I will be ‘running around all day and going from meeting to meeting and associating with rich and glamorous people’, instead I’m stuck in the office from 9am till 6pm…oh! And get this…with no pay…LIFE IS JUST GREAT is it not?

With all this time on my hands I can’t help but think, lately I have been thinking

  ‘Why am I still single?’ and  ‘Why did my past relationships not work?’

 But one question that keeps coming up is, if given the chance, would I get back with any of them?

If you are honest with yourself, you will admit that this thought has often crossed your mind too.

So what is my answer? I say NO! because…. He is an EX for a reason…and a good reason too!!!

Let’s look at it this way, if you spit something on the ground, (even by accident) will you pick it up and put it back in your mouth again? NO! So why would you want someone that didn’t want you or you didn’t want at one point in your life.

I don’t have a lot of experience but I have experience heartbreak in a real long term relationship and honey, I don’t care if he is the last man on earth I will never take him back…! 

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate him, he was my first in everything, I gave him my all and though he gave me his all until I found out it was all a lie from the very first day…after 7 years of in and out, I find out on Facebook that he has made someone pregnant.

Can you believe till today, my guy has not found the courage to verbally break up with me or even say sorry or anything…!

In this case it will be easy to let go and say Never right? Ok cool!

What about when everything is fine between you and your partner and you decide to part ways mutually with no hang ups? Will it be easier and more justifiable to take them back?

Yes?

Well I say NO! why should you, whatever it was that made you guys go your separate ways has not been identified and dealt with, in actual fact it has been forgotten by the absence…!

Many a times we get carried away and forget to put ourselves first and actually analyze the situation…if it couldn’t work before, what make you think it will work now…!

Love is not BLIND, You are being STUPID…there is a difference…so beware…!

Don’t get carried away because you see your ex happy with their new partner and think that they have changed, they probably has but remember we respond to other people differently so just be happy and MOVE ON…!