Singles & Married: Does LoVe cost a thing?

Happy Love month to you all...would you say "...love costs a thing?"

We all know that this is the month the world has designated to be the love month.
With Valentine's day creeping up on us, I am reminded of painful and perhaps regretful memories.

I don't know if I'm alone in this but you know when you meet a girl or guy and you like them so much that you are most often found day dreaming about them?

Ok...well that was me a couple of years back...I met a wonderful guy and we quickly became friends...we talked all day and all night sometimes...however there was one issue...he wasn't saying what I was dying for him to say..which was, D! I want you. I love you!

As time went on I was loosing hope and to be honest I was running out of patience.
So, I had the perfect plan...he had been talking about how disapointed he was about his phone blowing up and him needing to replace it.
So I thought, ok I will get him a brand new one maybe he will see that making me his woman
won't be such a bad idea...and so I did...!

The guy took it when I gave him and when I asked him so can we take things to the next level and to my absolute surprise he said NO!

So my question is...have you found yourself in this situation either at the recievibg end or been the giver...?

Was it right for me to assume I could buy his love?

Does your love cost a thing?

Singles & Married: Should I? Would you? Why not?

Hello guys,

 Welcome to the new edition on my blog called 'SINGLES & MARRIED', courtesy of my amazing church GLOBAL RESTORATION CHURCH. THEY ASKED ME TO HOST THIS SEGMENT BY WAY OF DISCUSSING THE SEVERAL ISSUES WE FACE AS YOUNG PEOPLE IN LOVE/LUST AND CONFUSSION.

so, I must admit, I've been battling with what to discuss as my first topic and just like that it happened!

just this week, work was getting so stressful that I decided to just take a 10min break to reflect and as fate will have it my colleague decided she will join me. at first we sat in silence then she started,

''Desire, can I ask you something?'' she said and after rolling my eyes at her (simply because i was in no mood to listen, I just wanted to relax in peace) I said yeah go on.

Anyway, so it turns out that her guy has proposed to her and as quickly as her world became somewhat complete, that joy was abruptly taken back when she discovered that the man asking her to marry him is her close friend's ex boyfriend.

''I love him so much and you know I'm not getting any younger...'' she went on to explain ''...but I don't know if I could marry this guy know he has been intimate with my best friend...''

So HER QUESTION WAS...

SHOULD SHE?

WOULD YOU?

 

I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU GUYS ...PLEASE HELP?