Wednesday, 18 September 2013

That very 'awkward' moment...

Hey guys! Its been too long...I miss you...!

I'm back...and with a LOT to share with you...I had the most amazing summer ever with me big sister...Lover her to bits!
So anyway, I have a new laptop now (by the way Windows 8 sucks) so I should be blogging more often now...!

OoooK! So you know 'that very awkward moment' when you've dated a guy for a while and then all of a sudden he gives you the 'very cold' and silent treatment? YES! I knew you guys would know!

So I met this guy on the plane, I sat next to him and we got to talking and after the initial 'shakara' (on my part obviously) things proceeded steadily. He eventually asked me out and I obliged. he even made me a mix tape just before I left Ghana to go home for the summer holidays. I was overly excited because no one had ever made me a mix tape before.

So I arrive in London and things are cool, I will call, he will call then after sometime ................!
Yep! exactly that! white noise! Not even a 'bbm reply'. However, my darling boyfriend will be changing his 'dps' with numerous female pictures with status such as 'HBD so and so'. I decided to just forget about the whole situation and enjoy my holiday and time back home with my family.
After sometime, my sweetheart contacts me and tells me that the reasons for his behaviour was that HE FELT I WAS PRESSURISING HIM INTO MARRIAGE!!!

Upon hearing this, I could not believe my self but I quickly decided against having an argument with my sweetheart and quickly apologised and ended the conversation. I did this for 2 very honest reasons:
1- Because I still had feelings for him
2- It was just funny because anyone that knows me know I'm not particularly pro marriage


Ok, so after all this, on my return to Ghana, I told my now darling FRIEND to pick me up with the hopes of maybe rekindling our romance...(however being the sceptic that I am, I told another friend to be there for back up because although I'm a hopeless romantic, I am very realistic in my reasoning).

I arrived, I called my darling friend, he wasn't at the airport, so I called my back up and he was there so I relaxed (although disappointed).
after waiting for my bags to arrive, my darling friend called and said he was there, outside, waiting...I could not get out of that airport fast enough. I was so ecstatic I didn't have time for all the check at the airport...I couldn't believe he came...he actually came!

I finally get to the arrivals lounge and I see my back up, I was happy and grateful to see him but he wasn't my darling friend...where was he?

my friend took my trolley and we headed outside, I couldn't even hear what he was saying, I was too busy looking out for my 'Prince'.

Finally....there he was...in all his glory...handsome as ever....I cant tell you how I found my way through the crowd to hug him....!!! I even surprised my self!!!

He wasn't over the moon happy but he was smiling so that was good enough...we walked to his car and to my amazement  THERE SHE WAS, SITTING GLORIOUSLY AT THE FRONT OF THE CAR (IN MY PLACE)!

Yep! THAT VERY AWKWARD MOMENT!!!

As if I was slapped and punched at the same time, I could only ask who she was?!
In my head I was cursing and blinding but I had to compose my self and not seem defeated.
After his explanation, all I could say was I HAVE NOT SEEN YOU IN HOW LONG AND YOU HAD TO BRING HER TO COME PICK ME UP? THANK YOU FOR COMING BUT I HAVE A RIDE...!