Hello Thicckens,
I know its been a while but i hope you welcome me back with open arms
Ok, so imagine getting dressed. To hit the town with your
girls for a night out of fun and antics!
You hit the town, the vibe is great, and you’re feeling good and you down your first glass of cocktail.
As the sweet sensation of the sweet flavours travels down your throat, you begin to let go of the weeks stress and as your muscles relax your feet begins to alert you to take another sip and make your way to the dance floor to show your girls your version of the Azonto!
Sounds amazing huh?
You hit the town, the vibe is great, and you’re feeling good and you down your first glass of cocktail.
As the sweet sensation of the sweet flavours travels down your throat, you begin to let go of the weeks stress and as your muscles relax your feet begins to alert you to take another sip and make your way to the dance floor to show your girls your version of the Azonto!
Sounds amazing huh?
Well imagine all this being cut short being interrupted by an obnoxious man who thinks that the fact that you have made the effort to dress up and are looking good, that this warrants an invitation for compliments and, most of the time, unwanted attention.
Don't get me wrong! It’s always nice to be complimented but there are ways to go about it!
And invading my personal space and interrupting my ‘down’
time with my friends is NOT the time.
What I don't understand is why men think that every woman out in a club or in bar looking good is waiting for a guys attention!
And the fact that most of them are not even clued on how to act like a gentleman and how to approach a woman is what makes the whole situation awkward and annoying!
Ok, imagine a grown woman who’s paid her own fee to enter the club, bought her own drinks and a man sending his friends over to summon her like a school girl waiting to be noticed by her crush or better still, like a person being called by her boss!
I mean how would you expect her to react?
It’s different when it comes to some insecure women whose self esteem and confidence is dependent on such demeaning acts from the opposite sex but from a self respecting woman like most women out there that I know, this is an issue so guys take note!
What I don't understand is why men think that every woman out in a club or in bar looking good is waiting for a guys attention!
And the fact that most of them are not even clued on how to act like a gentleman and how to approach a woman is what makes the whole situation awkward and annoying!
Ok, imagine a grown woman who’s paid her own fee to enter the club, bought her own drinks and a man sending his friends over to summon her like a school girl waiting to be noticed by her crush or better still, like a person being called by her boss!
I mean how would you expect her to react?
It’s different when it comes to some insecure women whose self esteem and confidence is dependent on such demeaning acts from the opposite sex but from a self respecting woman like most women out there that I know, this is an issue so guys take note!
Guys! Will it hurt to just admire from afar? Or if you must talk to us to boost your own egos please learn to do it with caution and some respect!
I mean will it hurt to walk up to a woman and say ‘excuse me miss I think you look very 'beautiful' tonight!’
NOTE: Don't say
'hot' or 'sexy' because you don't know her well enough to feel that free with
her!
Gone are the days when men were actually anxious, nervous even fearful to approach a woman because of the respect he accorded her and how much they valued us!
Guys! Let's try and get back to that because we appreciate that and I bet you that will get you the number quicker than your ‘waste’ lines you picked up from American movies or from Hip Hop songs!
Till next time, let's keep Thicck!
Gone are the days when men were actually anxious, nervous even fearful to approach a woman because of the respect he accorded her and how much they valued us!
Guys! Let's try and get back to that because we appreciate that and I bet you that will get you the number quicker than your ‘waste’ lines you picked up from American movies or from Hip Hop songs!
Till next time, let's keep Thicck!
